I was standing in our living room yesterday around 5pm, Tama in my arms, when I looked in our backyard and saw some KID traipsing across the lawn. My response time in situations like this is abysmal. Someone could walk in and rob our home in front of me, and I'd just be standing there. I managed to say, "Um, Iain - why is there a kid in our backyard?!" Thankfully, Iain is like Blue responding to the sound of the can opener -- he raced right outside and confronted the boy.
When asked why he was walking through our backyard and not out on the sidewalk, the kid replied with a sullen, "It's too far."
It's TOO FAR?! What?! No apology, no fear, no nothing. It was like he was annoyed with IAIN for bothering him on his quiet walk through everyone's property.
To be fair, he was about 10 years old and in school clothes -- it's not like we had a gang member back there - but it's still a little disconcerting, and moreover, his whole "Wha'd I do?" attitude was infuriating.
This experience re-ignited the, "Let's just sell the house and move somewhere else already" convo, but we finally calmed down and acknowledged that we aren't ready to sell yet.
Next door, the Americans moved out. Odd to have neighbors for that long who we never spoke to, but we've now realized how good we had it. For all of our complaining about their antisocial behavior, they were excellent neighbors. No noise EVER. We're now living in fear of who will move in: A family with five kids, ranging in age from 6 months to 14 years?? A couple who also works from home but plays hip-hop music all day? A drummer? One of those people with a huge exhaust pipe on their car who likes to let the car idle in the driveway? The list could go on and on.